Wow, I am your co-worker...okay well not really but a similar thing happened to me. I was *** to a project; re-design a program's packaging. I came up with 3 designs that all our marketing staff loved. However, the project owner absolutely hated everything I had done. The project owner went over her own manager's head, to his boss, who then put the squeeze on our department director (yeah, there are way too many people involved in this...another problem with our system). Our director told me and my Creative Manager that if this is what the project owner said and didn't want, we had to bend to what she wanted.
Now I presented my designs well, explained the concepts that would support the program's objectives. I communicated with the project owner, using her words and information to relate how the design would benefit her program. In the end, I fought with dignity but there was nothing I could do. Sometimes, we can't win battles, but do remember the war. So sad of an analogy but true unfortunately. Politics in and corp. suck and people use them all the time.
The good thing that came out of this for me was that this project owner made a huge fool of herself during all this. She yelled (really yelling, loud, hitting things, red in face, not kidding here; and all over a folder), went above her boss, used tactics that were not professional in order to get her way. Throughout this ordeal, I stayed calm, explained the creative concepts the best I could and compromised. Now in comparison, I now look more mature and together than she does after this project. I still here people say how everyone knows how she acts and no one wants to work with her. People request to work with me specifically at my company because they know what I am capable of. Sometimes, you must let things go but make sure to elevate yourself in moments like these. You learn from every experience...if your co-worker is a good designer, the important people will see that. And if they don't, keep all good work as portfolio stuff
