Introverted? Why You Should Step Outside Your Comfort Zone

I remember my first day of kindergarten like it was yesterday. As my parents and I slowly walked towards Mrs. Hamm’s class, I was clutching my dad’s hand with a Kung Fu Grip so tight only G.I. Joe ­– who I was choking in my other hand ­– could admire behind his chiseled, expressionless face. Every day prior to that inevitable first day was spent daydreaming and embarking on solitary adventures under the watchful eyes of my best friend, Miss Watson.

Miss Watson was a thickly accented Jamaican woman who loved wearing billowy cotton dresses, wide-brimmed straw hats, and was hired to care for me while I focused on the itinerary of my imaginary excursions. All I needed was Miss Watson, G.I. Joe and the pretend world created just for my personal enjoyment ­– it was all good in my hood. And then suddenly the door to Mrs. Hamm’s kindergarten class swung open and I was simultaneously terrified, confused and delighted by all the youthful energy inside the room. It was the first time I had to decide whether to retreat or surge forward.

introverted imageFast-forward several decades and I’m sitting in the refuge of my hotel room, much wiser and eager to learn, reviewing sessions of the HOW Design Live conference commencing the next day.

Year after year I would attend various conferences and soak up the content, but I failed to connect with the community of creative and energetic professionals alongside me. I opted instead to retreat to my hotel room working remotely, answering emails, ordering room service, and calling old friends to catch up.

To be clear, I’m not antisocial. I do enjoy good, lively conversations. I just felt drained by all the kinetic energy. “Busy” was the mask I wore to cover the real truth: I’m an introvert.

Retreating was my routine and I never once thought to step outside my comfort zone – until a few years ago. I realized that retreating hindered my professional growth as well as the trajectory of my career. My circle of influence was incredibly small and I wanted to create new, genuine connections that extended beyond the borders of my state. I concluded that if I was going to attend conferences or do anything to improve myself professionally, I must surge forward into uncharted waters, sharing the career knowledge I’d been bottling up for decades.

If I hadn’t made the decision to pivot and take that first step, I would have never met some of the most amazing, generous people working in the advertising and design industry today. People whose leadership, phenomenal advice and support have helped me discover, cultivate and share talents I never knew existed. That’s what surging forward and stepping outside my comfort zone did for me.

I recently read an interesting statistic that one-third to half of the people living in the United States are introverted. I would bet there is a higher percentage among creative practitioners who identify with the characteristics of someone more introspective in nature. Please try not to equate introversion so readily with shyness or even being a pushover. The characteristics of introversion are not so black and white. There are many dynamic leaders at the helm of global brands that impact our daily lives who are introverts and naturally require less stimulation. When required, they can capture the attention of hundreds of people in a conference room but personally prefer and thrive in the company of a few in a much smaller setting.

With the business landscape evolving and strategic design thinking becoming a valued factor in the successful execution of many corporate initiatives, creative professionals are being invited to take a seat at the corporate table and asked to speak about the impact creativity can have on various business strategies.

Whether you’re an introvert, ambivert or even an extrovert, the next time you find yourself standing in the threshold of a big industry event combusting with energy, a local professional association meeting or even one of your own company’s stodgy conference rooms, surge forward and step way outside your comfort zone. Doing so may be uncomfortable or even terrifying at first, but you’ll be delighted and surprised by all the new discoveries.

 

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